Rather than have a list of requirements for , an older woman is going to have to be the accommodating one. This means that as an older woman, you’re going to have to work hard to attract a man. 10) Always remember that women need men more than they need us.Let’s start with the basics: 1) Get real – Accept that the competition is younger, funner and more sexually vibrant than you are, and you need to go the extra mile to compete with this: 2) Weight – Lose it. Now you can dig your heels in and declare that you aren’t going to do any of these things. So what’s the thing about dating that bothers you most? All the good ones are taken…check this out: If you live anywhere near a major metro area, and are looking for a man over 40, 5’8” or taller, college educated, non-smoking, making a higher than median income…statistics say that there are over 2000 of these guys within 20 miles of you looking for love online. As long as you let yourself believe that your lack of connection with a good man is about T-H-E-M…then you don’t have to take responsibility. DO NOT tell me that in the first 10 minutes of meeting a man you can know that he is a potential suitor or life partner. Quick judgments are often more about you than the man sitting in front of you. I did it for about 30 years and I experienced all the hurt, confusion, frustration, hopelessness, boredom, and exhaustion that comes with it. There are about 45 million single men over the age of 35 in the United States, about 7 million in Britain and 2 million in Australia. And before you say…but, Bobbi, these aren’t quality men. If you’re like I used to be as a single gal, it’s because it gives you permission to stay the same and stay single. Unless he spits when he talks, smells, or is drunk; give him a chance.About speed dating Our speed dating evenings are great fun.For best results we recommend you come along with an open mind and don't take it too seriously.
And when I saw it, and dealt with it, my life changed.
Out of this you will begin to refine your list of must-have’s, nice to have’s and who cares/what was I thinking.
If you are serious about finding a life partner, or at least a man to have some fun with, letting go of the idea that there are no good single men for you is a first critical step. I’d love to hear how this (pretty simple) shift works for you. Bobbi If you want to find that man who loves and adores you for the rest of your life, join Bobbi for her Grownup Girls’ Night Out FREE monthly webcasts.
What happens at an event When you arrive, you will find a friendly Older n Bolder host who will register you for the event and give you a scorecard, a name badge and a pencil.
You are then invited to join other guests at the bar to chat before the event starts and have a drink if you'd like to buy one.